Whoever moves first is gay

The "Whoever moves first is gay" meme originated from an internet trend started by TikToker @alfonsopinpon_. This meme first appeared in February 2024 and involves telling men in public, "Whoever moves first is gay." The humor of this meme is based on homophobic undertones, capturing the participants trying hard not to move.

This meme quickly gained popularity on TikTok, with many users creating similar videos. @alfonsopinpon_ introduced this meme by starting with the phrase "Do you speak English or Spanish?" to engage participants, and this question also became a recurring part of the meme. The trend was particularly popular in videos filmed in the United States and Mexico.

The meme primarily features men attempting not to move first, often leading to humorous situations, especially when women are present. Many of these videos are accompanied by Steve Lacy's song "Static," which has become associated with the meme.